Die onlangse #allmenaretrash veldtog het my nogal baie ontstel en het aanleiding gegee tot hierdie skrywe\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ek is diep onder die indruk van die aanslae teen m\u00fd generasie blanke Afrikaner mans. Hulle is grootgemaak met die wete dat hulle soldate gemaak gaan word en dat dit hulle plig, eer en trots moet wees om die vroue en kinders van Suid-Afrika te beskerm. Met fisiese en emosionele wonde en ander met hul lewens, het hulle hul plig uitgevoer. Die weermag het hulle fisies sterk gemaak, maar emosioneel afgestomp, want wie stuur nou ‘n soldaat met ‘n sagte hart in ‘n oorlog in!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Op ‘n dag is die oorlog verby en ons soldate word gekonfronteer met ‘n nuwe oorlog. Jammer jy is te wit vir die werk, ons het jou nie meer nodig nie, jy moet ook plek maak vir die opkomende geslag vroue wat net so slim en sterk is soos jy en enige iets net so goed kan doen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In ‘n gesprek met ‘n mansvriend die ander dag, besef ek weer hoe my generasie manne wonder of hulle enigsins aan die oorlog moes deelneem? Hulle wroeg oor die dinge wat hulle moes doen en oor die prys wat hulle moes betaal. Hulle was dan vertel hulle was die helde van die nasie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My generasie blanke Afrikaner mans het die simbool geword van alles wat verkeerd gegaan het in die ou Suid-Afrika. Hulle word die slaansakke van almal wat ‘n probleem het met enige vorm van onreg. Met baie spanning, onsekerheid, druk en kreatiwiteit moet hulle maniere vind om vir hulle gesinne te sorg, want in soveel ho\u00eb vlak poste is hulle nie welkom nie en te wit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nou ook die aanklag dat ons generasie manne deur stil te gebly het, bygedra het tot die geweld teen vroue. Eers het die sisteem jou ‘n geharde soldaat gemaak om vroue te beskerm, nou is dit daardie selfde vroue wat jou aankla dat jy nie genoeg gedoen het om hulle te beskerm nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Stephen Covey verduidelik mooi die beginsel van die emosionele bank. Jy kan nie meer uittrek as wat jy ingesit het nie. Ek as vrou sien hoe ons manne se tenkies al leeggetrek is deur 30 jaar van onsekerheid en druk. Soveel onvervulde drome…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
WAT IS MY OPLOSSING EN HOEKOM STEL EK MYSELF BLOOT OM HIERDIE DINGE TE S\u00ca???<\/p>\n\n\n\n
ALLE vorme van verandering begin by MYSELF! Wat kan EK doen om die manne in m\u00fd lewe se tenks weer vol te maak?! Voor enige vrou sekere optrede van ‘n man kan eis, moet ons onsself dalk afvra wat ons doen om hulle emosionele tenk vol te maak? Hoeveel dank en waardering spreek EK uit teenoor die manne in my lewe. Hoeveel respek betoon ek aan hulle? Sien ek my man nog as die ridder op die wit perd wat my held is (of is dit nou ‘n stelling uit Noag se ark?) Dit is wat alle mans nodig het om te weet! Hulle is s\u00f3 gemaak! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gaan ek die blanke Afrikaner manne in my lewe en binnekring help om weer trots te wees op hul eie identiteit en hulle koester? Gaan ek luister met begrip en hulle sommer net bederf? As ek bereid is om dit te doen, d\u00e1n en slegs d\u00e1n kan ek eise stel van wat ons as vrou n\u00f3g van julle verwag om te verander!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ek gaan van vandag af hierop fokus! Julle manne eer en respekteer en ek weet die respek sal wederkerig wees! My waardering aan elke blanke Afrikaner man op my vriendelys wat sover gelees het! Julle is kosbaar in my lewe!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die onlangse #allmenaretrash veldtog het my nogal baie ontstel en het aanleiding gegee tot hierdie skrywe\u2026 Ek is diep onder die indruk van die aanslae teen m\u00fd generasie blanke Afrikaner mans. Hulle is grootgemaak met die wete dat hulle soldate gemaak gaan word en dat dit hulle plig, eer en trots moet wees om die 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